2011年1月17日星期一

During Insider

Marriage is a siege. But now the idea is do not rush people out. Because it looks more like a city of design, inside heavy, people outside the city but never imagined countless find a correct answer; in the city who applied the seal seems to be cursed, sharp mind to understand, but can only cry sigh, can not tell, is unable to speak. Say it can not find a clue, had to become a pyramid scheme-like secretive smile, full of meaning is: When you get married you will completely understand.

Many people say, love and marriage is totally different child. Whether such a stupidly said unmarried married love. Spit out a single young Youde: Sometimes, whom we love is a person, whom is married to another person not course other reason, such the gucci bags.

The married are plausibly said: marriage, love will slowly erode, but affection and responsibility is growing. So look at it looks like how the marriage actually did not need to love, and there are numerous examples to support: the past is tragic arranged marriage is not ending, it should be said that most people are good flies.

However, I would think, love in marriage is absolutely indispensable. "Bible" in everything, love is eternal patience.

In other words, how often, when love love, then marriage may be able to have more - this is inevitable, for a superficial patience and forbearance of other people who he? In fact, these words reveal a dark corner of the inside of marriage: In fact, marriage may not be much fun we thought warm, safe haven may be resolved outside of the storm, but the internal sense of responsibility to bring two people and even run the two families, a variety of trivial and the vulgar reality of everyday objects, are likely to run out of enthusiasm and energy.

Moreover, there is the size of the external stimulus, as people every night, it is inevitable tossing and turning. As a single person, in fact no qualified to write such an article. Thinking of married and single people as if the frequency difference between the Earth and Pluto, there is no way to communicate. However, a number of years ago, a senior advisory I quickly filled with a happy marriage.

Because he felt that sense of stability is valuable, especially in a sunny morning I wake up, watching his son lying in the middle of the couple, the kind of family happiness, happiness is simply a direct embodiment of the severely hit the fragile little mind . But five years later, in the Mid-Autumn Festival greetings to the phone, he says profoundly, perhaps you are right, I envy you now state what single life.

As one insider, but he remained silent in any case not disclosed. I guess, in fact, he did not say anything, but trivial in daily life that may be just as the body of a camel straw, and finally told him to feel the dull life, marriage suffocation.

Fooling the single life than marriage thing is, they have not yet entered a fixed mount, when living conditions, there are always choices. Although sometimes desolate loneliness, but more often is easy to be free. To carry not go on that day, this state can also be decided end of the Labyrinth into marriage.

And married, in love, family, responsibility, children, property and even law relationship between the various entangled deeper and deeper, even if we have the worth of disappointments, can not easily get out to say the word like without the gucci, and also before the freedom of choice is not so much can be implemented.

Give a simple example, if a person wanted to take him and afraid to make a variety of exaggerated words and deeds to express their emotions, there are many friends to talk to vent, or drunk or something, tomorrow morning, maybe on the street all men and women than ever in his / (her) well. And a starting careers and families have elderly parents to care, even if it fights at home, turned upside down, I'm afraid to walk away can not bloom, but not night out at friends house for support, that will only expand the war.

Most importantly, talk to whom? Married friends may be equally at home can not solve problems, and single women's apartment close and did not understand what you're talking, but did not quite understand why a simple thing so seriously. Finally, I am afraid only remaining Unspoken sigh of the bar.

Of course, marriage is not so desperate, although the "Desperate Housewives" Students see us over the body cold. If the correct attitude, it does not have more fantasy-based love, and regard it as important a share in life company assets reorganization, it is still stable and warm. Secular marriage to meet human needs.

It is decent, safe, abundant, bear the responsibility handed down, and after the reorganization of human relations, will make people more mature, know how to choose or compromise and interpersonal communication patterns. Only know what they need to get after the treasure and properly addressed.

Everyone has a romantic at heart or the prodigal son's heart, it is the young patent, love can make it to the limit as the clouds rise, but marriage is a harsh man fell to the ground, so that people from living a down to earth life. So, attributed to Caesar Caesar, the people attributed to the people, to love in search of love, want to look for marriage marriage can give, the day was not so sad. Otherwise, it will be more interesting during the Insider, sensational, long story but nothing to say.

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